Although gay internet dating sites provide a helpful platform in enabling males to satisfy one another, Christopher Halton writes for PinkNews of how they can additionally put some homosexual males in danger.
On I was one of 30 or so men to take part in the filming of an advert for Survivors UK, a lottery funded charity set up to support men who have been raped or sexually abused monday. Happily, i’ve never ever been a target myself, and went to the shoot simply as an additional.
Beforehand, we researched the charity and see the testimony of a new guy that has met some body he previously been chatting to for an internet dating website. It absolutely was the contact that is first had had along with other homosexual males. Initially the date had opted well, however it finished poorly and then he had been raped.
This made me think about the danger inherent in meeting men who I know nothing about, other than what they choose to tell me, which may or may not be true as a user of gay dating sites. My experience of fulfilling men from all of these internet web sites happens to be overwhelmingly good, and I also have constantly prided myself on being truly good judge of character. But while the saying goes, pride comes before an autumn. The truth is, We hardly ever really understand if the individual i will be going to satisfy is just a bet that is safe. It’s a danger We simply just simply take.
This realisation was further compounded once I recently re-joined Grindr. My relationship with Grindr happens to be a lot more of a unfortunate fling which invariably comes to an end beside me deleting the application from my phone within a short time. My latest foray is the final one I can certainly make. If formerly, my emotions to the working platform had been ambivalent, they usually have now been crystallised: We earnestly dislike it.
Grindr has acquired a status that is somewhat iconic the homosexual community and understandably therefore. (more…)